About — Dating With Gracie
About Dating with Gracie

Most dating coaches hand you a script. We hand you a mirror.

Gracie is the female insider who knows exactly what women want, and why good men keep getting it wrong. Tracy is the certified mindset coach (and Gracie's mom) who knows exactly why those men sabotage themselves. Together, they built the only program that fixes both at once.

Tracy and Gracie Pleschourt
A mother & daughter

Meet Tracy & Gracie

We're a mother and daughter who built something unusual: a coaching program that works because we each bring something the other can't.

Gracie is the female insider. She knows what women talk about after dates. She knows what makes her friends put down their phone mid-conversation and say "wait, who is this guy?" She built this program because she kept watching good men fail for completely preventable reasons, and decided to do something about it.

Tracy is the mindset architect. After years as a certified life coach, she saw a pattern: the men Gracie coached already had the tactics. What they were missing was the thinking. Tactics without mindset don't stick. That's why she joined.

It doesn't fix you. You're not broken.

Dating with Gracie shows you who you already are, removes the thinking that's been in the way, and gives you the community and the tools to become the man you've always been capable of being.

How the coaching works

Two coaches. Two calls. The how and the why.

One week you learn what to say. The next, you learn why you couldn't say it.

Thursdays — the HOW

Gracie

Female dating expert

Live group coaching on exactly what women want, think, and feel: apps, texting, approaching, reading signals, flirting, and the exclusivity conversation. The perspective of the woman you're actually trying to attract.

Tuesdays — the WHY

Tracy

Certified mindset coach

Live group coaching on the thought patterns underneath: the fear brain, the saboteurs, and the self-sabotage that override the tactics. The mindset that makes everything else finally stick.

Plus a real brotherhood of men on the same journey, a monthly leaderboard with prizes, and a live women's panel where 15–20 real women answer your questions directly. No other program does this.

4,000+
Men coached
NY Post
& Daily Mail featured
3
Published journals
1M+
Followers
"My nervous system just feels calm when I'm with you. Normally by this point I would feel like I had to run."
What Julian's girlfriend told him — after 6 months in the program
Real Men. Real Results.

This is what happens when you stop guessing and get a coach.

Every word below comes from a real member of the Dating With Gracie community — men who showed up, did the work, and changed their lives.

★★★★★

"This is gonna be my first girlfriend. I just can't believe it. I'm stunned. Totally shocked. It's so surreal — this still doesn't feel real."

— Joe
★★★★★

"It's nice to have that community, so you know you're not alone. I've gotten to know a lot of the guys on a personal level — it's been a really cool experience."

— John
★★★★★

"I am not only better at dating, but more in control of my thoughts and a more confident man. If you use Gracie's advice, you'll be amazed what you can do."

— Jimmy
★★★★★

"I'm no longer single, so thank you very, very much for all of your help."

— Julian